Know that what you do or don’t do affects other people in your life. People want to feel that they can depend on you and that you will be there for them when needed. They want to know that you’re believable. These traits are essential when you have children involved and also come into play with friendships and intimate relationships. Not keeping your word is hurtful. It make people feel unimportant. Today, we have tips on why you should keep your word. Keeping your word ensures others that they can depend on you. And, reliability is a great way to get on the path of empowering yourself.
- Your children will follow your example – Children do as they see and repeat what they hear. If you don’t live up to what you say why should they?
- Demonstrates that you’re untrustworthy – People don’t trust others who don’t mean what they say and why should they.
- Could possibly damage the self-esteem of others – If a person depends on you and you constantly let me them down it will eventually affect their self-esteem. They may feel unworthy, not cared for and eventually give up on you or worst themselves.
- You’re unreliable – You will never become a part of a team or a relationship. You will demonstrate that you can’t carry your weight and you’re not a team player. Making a commitment could become a problem.
- You lack character – Where I come from, your word is your bond. It’s what makes you stick to another person or a task. It’s equivalent to a hand shake. So, character is a reflection of who you are, your values, and your morals.
Furthermore, at some point we must all grow up and bend over backwards to keep our word. Life is not all fun and games, and letting another down can be devastating. Being responsible is what separates the men from the boys and the women from the girls. Learn to follow through when you say that you will do something and demonstrate that you can be depended on.
Most importantly, not keeping your word is a serious character flaw that must be improved if you want to be a good parent and maintain other important relationships. Are you teaching your child to keep their word and are you demonstrating how? Are you in a friendship or relationship where you are constantly being let down? If so, you may want to reassess it. People dish out what you’re willing to accept.
I love that last sentence — it is so very true! Great post.
I had to learn that lesson. Instead of wondering why a person was doing what they are doing. I had to ask why I was accepting it. Once I did, I made major changes in my life.
I couldn't agree more. I believe a person's ability to mean what they say and say what they mean and carry through with their actions is indicative of who they are and what they bring to the table.
I am all about clarity. Great share.
Hi Mari – You are right, it is indicative of who they are and they rarely bring anything to the table, lol. You wonder why anyone would want to deal with someone who can't keep their word.